Family Pigeon Holes

Sometimes I think about my lack of extended family, or family. But tonight I felt the creepiness of "family" oriented people who revel in the practice of pigeonholing people and never forgetting any little past error. Initially, how depressing to be on the receiving edge of unnecessary and unfair criticism. But on second take how liberating to realize I'm not boxed into their family world and can completely ignore them. Sad people.